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Friday, May 7, 2010
Jery Gibbens obituary
Geraldine Lovelace Montgomery Gibbens
Geraldine Lovelace Montgomery Gibbens, 92, died Wednesday, May 5, 2010, at Hospice Ministries in Ridgeland, MS
Mrs. Gibbens was a lifetime resident of Hinds County having graduated from Central High School, class of 1936, in Jackson and attended Jackson Business College. She was a member of Edwards Presbyterian Church.
Mrs. Gibbens was preceded in death by her parents, John Edwin Lovelace and Willie Mae Lovelace; brothers, John Edwin, Jr. and Winsel Marion.
Survivors include: husband, Julian Louis Gibbens of Edwards; daughter, Barbara Mellon (Joe); son, Victor Lewis Montgomery, Jr. (Kay); and six grandchildren, Scott Mellon, Allison Mellon, Lisa Maddox, Drew Mellon, Victor Montgomery (Leigh), and Angie Zadrozny (C.J.), and Molly Montgomery.
Funeral services will be held at 11:30 AM Saturday, May 8, 2010, at the Edwards Presbyterian Church in Edwards, MS. Visitation will begin at 10:00 AM. Interment will follow the service in the Edwards Cemetery.
Memorials may be made to: The Hard Places, International Outreach Ministries, P.O. Box 2140, McComb, MS 39649.
Mrs. Gibbens granddaughter, Allison, founded the Hard Place Ministries in Cambodia to intervene in the exploitation and trafficking of young children.
Published in Clarion Ledger on May 7, 2010
The Edwards Luncheon Club in 2007
Left to right Peggy Hubbard Ditto, Jo Ruth McClain, Jerry Gibbens, Katie Angelo, Lucille Harpole,
Not pictured Peggy Cannada
Monday, May 3, 2010
Hinds County Gazette, April 27, Christiansen's Comments "Knocky is Gone." ..
Sydney Knox Askew died the way he wanted to die, in his sleep, the morning of Friday April 16, at the age of 84. It came as a shock to the community…even though we knew he was having some health issues…he just that week had been to the doctor for tests….But Knocky was the Energizer Bunny…he never stopped. How could he be dead!?!
Mr. Knocky fo had an ailment that caused his bones to deteriorate, so he had been getting shorter for some years…But he kept on going. However, Knocky had begun to moved a bit slower… but never stopped. Edwards Cemetery Day he had commenced using a golf cart to direct the work being done. Then a year ago…he gave up the chairmanship of the cemetery. Just the week before Mr. Knocky died, Peggy Ann and I while strolling the streets of Edwards, saw Knocky and Roma in their beautifully manicured yard, we commented on how lovely it was…Knocky grinned, Roma said, “Knocky does it all“.
Knocky was part of a ever diminishing breed of men …who know what is good for the community… is good for him and his family….Knocky took his church, civic and community duties seriously. Knocky did not do his work to be in the spotlight…he did it, because it was his duty and responsibility
But, Knocky was a humble man…Under Knocky guidance the Edwards cemetery was transformed in to a beautiful, well care for, a final resting place….but he never took credit, he gave the praise to the guys who showed up with the heavy equipment to do the work, the people who sent memorial money to make the work and up keep possible …I said to him “But Knocky somebody has to get us organized, send out the cards and tend to the details“
His answer was, “Roma does that.”.
To hear him tell it…he did nothing. Knocky brought to mind this quote, “It is amazing what can be accomplished, if you do not care who gets the credit.”
Knocky’s funeral was at the Edwards Presbyterian Church, it was standing room only….and the lines were long at the visitation the evening before….
Reverend Whitworth began Mr. Knocky’s funeral service with this very appropriate and comforting quote from the Bible. Ecclesiastes 7:1 “A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death better than the day of one's birth“.
Sydney Knox Askew, was buried in his beloved Edwards Cemetery , April, 19, 2010.
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Christiansen Comments Hinds County Gazette April 15 2010
Good morning, what delightful days we have been experiencing of late…cool mornings, breezy warm afternoons…it is hard to stay in the house…I would take my computer out to the front porch and write, but the pollen, heaviest in we have experienced years, is falling….it so heavy…I am afraid it might my clog the keys up on the computer…..The front porch floor is yellow from all of the dropped pollen…quite the color of summer squash.
Friday evening, I went with friends, to the latest and regretfully, the last play for the Clinton Brick Street Players…. until the find another home….Mississippi College bought the old school, they are now using. They are searching for another location. No luck so far….
Merry Ellen Stockwell, a friend of mine, is in this production, she plays the part of the old lady, Merry Ellen in real life is a very attractive red head. But, I must say, she is very believable in her role as “mama“, costumed out in a grey wig, pink quilted robe, and bedroom shoes.
The play “The Watch They Keep” by Judy H Tucker a Mississippi playwright, is about an old woman who is in the latter stages of Alzheimer’s, and how her children are dealing with it. And the second act they are coping with death of their mother.
The premise of the play, adult, middle aged children dealing with their parents is so timely. They will be performing “The Watch they Keep” again this Friday and Saturday. April 16 and 17.
Saturday morning, I went to Raymond to participate in the Friends of Raymond, Park Day. It was an historic day for this organization….they installed ten, of 22 cannons that will ultimately be placed on the battlefield As I understand it, when all twenty two cannons are placed, Raymond’s Civil War battlefield will be the only one in the nation with it’s full complement of cannons.
It was fascinating to watch the men place the cast iron cannons…They used a backhoe to place the cannons ….you all, I have just about decided after years of observation…there in not much ,a team, of determined men can’t do if they have backhoe. And do it with precision!
The cannons were to be placed on three concrete pads, 2 for the wheels and one for the hitch. The three pads were not big, maybe a foot wide and 2 foot long. The cannons, full sized, constructed entirely of cast iron, were attached by chain and straps to the bucket of backhoe…were lifted off a flatbed trailer, and placed on the pads. You know it had to be done meticulously and gently …in order not to drop the cannon or crack the concrete… while placing the big guns
The men used hand signals to communicate….some of the moves were quite diminutive…at one point I saw a young man, hold up an arm, and using his pointy finger and thumb, he signified a move to the operator….and there was not but about an inch in the gap between the fingers….the move was executed with faultless accuracy and the cannon lower softly into position.
I have come to believe men from the time they are born they know how to speak “Backhoe” because all of this was accomplished…not by professionals …but by a rag tag team of doctors, lawyers, teachers, professors, college students etc. With a retired general, Parker Hill, directing the order of placement and a banker….Dick Kilby, he was operating the backhoe.
Over 50 volunteers came to work Park Day…. Much was accomplished besides10 cannons being placed, the walking trail was spiffed up….lots of weed eating and brush trimming took place….One cannon did get painted…before the work day ended.
This park is a jewel in Hinds county, Mississippi and the nation…..you do not have to be a Civil War enthusiast to appreciate the park…and it’s contribution economically and Historically to Hinds County.
call if you need me.
GloriaChristiansen@gmail.com
Friday evening, I went with friends, to the latest and regretfully, the last play for the Clinton Brick Street Players…. until the find another home….Mississippi College bought the old school, they are now using. They are searching for another location. No luck so far….
Merry Ellen Stockwell, a friend of mine, is in this production, she plays the part of the old lady, Merry Ellen in real life is a very attractive red head. But, I must say, she is very believable in her role as “mama“, costumed out in a grey wig, pink quilted robe, and bedroom shoes.
The play “The Watch They Keep” by Judy H Tucker a Mississippi playwright, is about an old woman who is in the latter stages of Alzheimer’s, and how her children are dealing with it. And the second act they are coping with death of their mother.
The premise of the play, adult, middle aged children dealing with their parents is so timely. They will be performing “The Watch they Keep” again this Friday and Saturday. April 16 and 17.
Saturday morning, I went to Raymond to participate in the Friends of Raymond, Park Day. It was an historic day for this organization….they installed ten, of 22 cannons that will ultimately be placed on the battlefield As I understand it, when all twenty two cannons are placed, Raymond’s Civil War battlefield will be the only one in the nation with it’s full complement of cannons.
It was fascinating to watch the men place the cast iron cannons…They used a backhoe to place the cannons ….you all, I have just about decided after years of observation…there in not much ,a team, of determined men can’t do if they have backhoe. And do it with precision!
The cannons were to be placed on three concrete pads, 2 for the wheels and one for the hitch. The three pads were not big, maybe a foot wide and 2 foot long. The cannons, full sized, constructed entirely of cast iron, were attached by chain and straps to the bucket of backhoe…were lifted off a flatbed trailer, and placed on the pads. You know it had to be done meticulously and gently …in order not to drop the cannon or crack the concrete… while placing the big guns
The men used hand signals to communicate….some of the moves were quite diminutive…at one point I saw a young man, hold up an arm, and using his pointy finger and thumb, he signified a move to the operator….and there was not but about an inch in the gap between the fingers….the move was executed with faultless accuracy and the cannon lower softly into position.
I have come to believe men from the time they are born they know how to speak “Backhoe” because all of this was accomplished…not by professionals …but by a rag tag team of doctors, lawyers, teachers, professors, college students etc. With a retired general, Parker Hill, directing the order of placement and a banker….Dick Kilby, he was operating the backhoe.
Over 50 volunteers came to work Park Day…. Much was accomplished besides10 cannons being placed, the walking trail was spiffed up….lots of weed eating and brush trimming took place….One cannon did get painted…before the work day ended.
This park is a jewel in Hinds county, Mississippi and the nation…..you do not have to be a Civil War enthusiast to appreciate the park…and it’s contribution economically and Historically to Hinds County.
call if you need me.
GloriaChristiansen@gmail.com
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